Oh, I’m taking it further: Conservatives will never be empathic to
women because they don’t see women as autonomous human beings. I said it. *drops
mic walks off*
Don’t get me wrong, a lot of people on our teams don’t see women as
autonomous human beings either, for real look no further than the atheist
community, which of course isn’t a monolith, but the majority of people who use
facts to make decisions tend to be on my team politically. Challenge the almighty
Richard Dawkin’s views on reproductive choice on twitter and wait for his
believers. It doesn’t take long.
Why am I picking on the Republicans? Because Rob
Portman of Ohio has now changed his view on gay marriage because of his gay
son. Portman said this:
“We conservatives believe in personal liberty and minimal government
interference in people’s lives. We also consider the family unit to be the
fundamental building block of society. We should encourage people to make
long-term commitments to each other and build families, so as to foster strong,
stable communities and promote personal responsibility.”
This has started a great twitter discussion about how to introduce
Portman to poor people and people of color. But you know what? He already knows
women. He has a daughter, a wife, and presumably a mother, but even the way I’ve
listed these, right? The women always seem to have a relationship to the men
folk. President Obama is bad for it, too. “Our mothers, wives, and daughters”
is a trope we hear from the right and left. Even a friend of mine asks, “How
are your wives, mothers, and daughters?” as a greeting, and I get what she is
trying to do. But what about asking about boss, professors, etc. because you
know, the womenfolk can have jobs independent of the mens.
Carmon discusses Portman’s change of heart, but notes that he knows
women, and he isn’t changing his mind on reproductive issues. Lots of
Republicans who know women (some even are women) opposed reproductive rights,
but also VAWA, fair pay, and general equality. But really, just look back to see
how they talk about rape. The womenfolk are liars (even though only a small
percent of rape allegations are false), and slutty women have it coming. That’s
what we learned from the GOP about rape in the last year. Well, fuck you.
Honestly, I don’t know why the GOP thinks gays and people of color are
stupid enough to fall for the bait and switch. But as the Republicans come
around on these issues they pull out the anti-women arguments as to not scare
their base. For example, Marco Rubio has changed his tune on immigration and
immediately says this, “Just because we believe that life-all human life- is
worthy of protections at every state of its development does not make you a
chauvinist.” He added, “In fact, the people who are actually close-minded in
American politics are people that love to preach about the certainty of science
with regards to out climate but ignore the absolute fact that science has
proven life begins at conception.” We can’t pinpoint conception; doctors and
pregnant women guesstimate. *science* I feel I need to provide some
context for good old Rubio.
There are several prominent figures in the GOP who are singing different
tunes on gays and immigrants, because of personal situations (I have a gay
friend, black friend, I know someone different than me I swear), but
also may just a little bit they’ve realized white men will not win an election
alone. The data exists; more people are ok with gay marriage now, so the GOP is
reluctantly shifting their positions. Reproductive rights, specifically
abortion because most people think that is the only one, aren’t shifting (we’re
in the lead), but things are pretty static as far as support. Republicans like
Mike Huckabee and Bob Vander Plaats threatened to leave their party if they
give any room on reproductive rights.
Carmon is right, reproductive rights are thrown in with social issues,
but they don’t play out the same way. Carmon points to Portman’s statement on gay
marriage, essentially, the gays are trying to fall in line, and we like that so
welcome to marriage and military service. Just don’t complain. Carmon continues
to argue that, “there is still something more radical and terrifying about a
woman not wanting to be a mother, or wanting to be a mother on her own terms…There
is still far more empathy for an embryo or fetus than for the living woman.”
Carmon concludes her piece by talking about how reproductive justice is
an economic issue. I argue that poor people (mostly women) are viewed by
conservatives like women through their relationship to the men around or if the
menfolk are absent than their relationship to the government. You can see this
in the infantilizing TANF policies we have that focus on marriage as a way to
raise women out of poverty, and the presumptive guilt and drug addiction of all
welfare recipients as the reasoning behind mandatory drug testing. Both of
these groups are not seen as autonomous human beings.
So in summary, it is great the GOP is starting to see people of color
(though in a very hierarchical way resulting in “good immigrants” vs. “Black
people”) and gays as individuals who have rights, as people who are entitled to
the same rights as the GOP. All that said there is no indication that the GOP sees
women as equal or entitled to the same rights the GOP possess.